难过无力，亲人也要她对无望的未来习以为常，森森地笑来掩饰谋算。踢打着哭着尖叫着，才能让自己的声音被听见，这个年纪她还不清楚在争取什么，但她一直记得对男人说不，叫女人们滚蛋

所有的评论都刻意放大了“抢婚”的主题，其实影片中的婚约还是很温和的，双方父母有沟通，男孩和女孩都先会在社交平台上聊，如同片中的“旺”，谁能说就不是“迪”的好的归宿，只是过早的婚姻，确实会毁掉女孩的前程，影片应该关注的是违背法律的早婚而不是所谓的“抢婚”。

SIFF #6 Real-life coming of age movie. What stands out here is the subtle push and pull dynamics between modern values and conservative traditions. On one hand we have characters saying the "correct" things, like "we parents shouldn't interfere what our children want", or there seemingly is direct intervention from School teachers and folks from "People's Committee" aiming to protect children's rights, which makes you think that tradition, as it stands, maybe are merely performative traditions in this day and age. Until at the very end when the brutal sequence unfolds in front of our eyes, the camera and the parents of Di, who almost decides to do nothing.

落后就要挨打！

题材取胜。手法和结构都没什么太特别的。